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You cope well with uncertainty
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When you go out, you do so with mutual friends
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You need your partner to change
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You cover up your partner's behaviour
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You are embarrassed by your partner's behaviour
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Loving someone is enough to make you change
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Do you let your partner win arguments because it feels unsafe to continue?
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There are elements of your partner's behaviour that make you feel resentful
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Arguments quickly become contemptuous
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Guilt is used to control behaviour
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People are responsible for their own happiness
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We manage our emotions well
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There are things you are frightened to discuss with your partner
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Money management is transparent
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You experience your partner as patient
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You feel that the use of drugs or alcohol is a problem in the relationship
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You look forward to your partner coming home
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You hide your partner's incompetence
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