The Spark Blog

Category: Families

  • National Siblings Day: A Reminder to Reconnect

    National Siblings Day: A Reminder to Reconnect

    National Siblings Day, on April 10th, is a special day dedicated to honouring the unique bond that exists between brothers and sisters. Siblings are often the first friends we make in life. They grow up with us, share our childhood experiences, and witness the ups and downs of our journey through life. But sibling relationships…

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  • 3 Exam Myths Busted

    3 Exam Myths Busted

    Exams are on the horizon for young people up and down the country. So we decided it was time to bust a few exam myths that can create unnecessary stress and anxiety before exams. Poor exam results will ruin your life Exams are a part of your development and growth as an individual. They are…

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  • Starting Secondary School: A Guide for Parents

    Starting Secondary School: A Guide for Parents

    Starting secondary school can be daunting for children and their parents. To help smooth the transition, our team of children and young people counsellors have put together their top tips on helping your child prepare for starting secondary school. Ask: how are you feeling about starting secondary school? Every child is different when it comes…

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  • What Young Adults Wish You Knew About Adolescence

    What Young Adults Wish You Knew About Adolescence

    During adolescence, the brain remodels intensively until the individual has reached their mid-20s. Up until that time the decisions, moods and emotions of a young adult are in a state of flux. The front of the brain – the prefrontal cortex – is the last section to be remodelled and is the part of the…

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  • Loss: how to help children and young people cope

    Loss: how to help children and young people cope

    Change is an inevitable and necessary part of growing up. With every change there is an element of loss, even when the changes are welcome. Whether it is the grief that comes with the loss of a favourite toy as a child or the death of a beloved grandparent, change creates difficult transitions. We are…

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  • How to teach kids good mental health at home

    How to teach kids good mental health at home

    During Children’s Mental Health Week, it might be worth thinking about The World Health Organisation’s figures that “around 1 in 5 of the world’s children and adolescents have a mental disorder” and that “about half of mental disorders begin before the age of 14”. In context, government data suggests 10% of children and young people…

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  • How to Help a Child Deal with Parental Separation and Divorce

    How to Help a Child Deal with Parental Separation and Divorce

    As a counselling and support charity, The Spark often works with couples trying to avoid parental separation. Sometimes, however, it is best for everyone involved that a relationship comes to an end. From time to time our counsellors are involved in helping couples separate amicably by providing emotional support, alongside mediation and/or legal proceedings. Frequently…

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  • Spotting the signs of emotional distress in children

    Spotting the signs of emotional distress in children

    Spotting the signs of emotional distress in children and young people is not always an easy task. For parents and carers, finding out how our kids are coping with the challenges of life can be as difficult as prizing them away from their smartphones. In this short resource from The Spark – Scotland’s largest provider…

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  • How FOMO is making us miss out

    How FOMO is making us miss out

    FOMO – fear of missing out – is a concept that could have been created for the social media age. Essentially, it captures that internal sense that other people are having a better time right now than you are. Partnered with its sibling FoBO – fear of a better option – their impact on our…

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